Have you ever felt a special tingle when seeing a pair of lace panties? Or gotten turned on imagining someone smelling your used panties? If so, you’re not alone. Many people have fetishes, but few dare to talk about them without feeling shame. Today, we want to tell you something important: what turns you on is not wrong.
What is a fetish and why do we have them?
From a psychological point of view, a fetish is an intense sexual preference for a specific object, garment, or situation — like online erotic games, erotic video calls, or even the sale of used panties. These desires often stem from associations formed during childhood or adolescence that our brain later sexualizes.
Far from being strange or unhealthy, fetishes are simply personal ways to experience desire. Some people are into feet, others get turned on by the idea of going without panties, others by erotic audio or looking at a booty pic in a thong. And that’s all perfectly okay.
Why do we feel guilty?
Because we’ve been taught that “proper” sex should be normative, discreet, and not too creative. But human desire is anything but flat. The problem isn’t what you like — it’s how you judge it. Guilt shows up when we think we “shouldn’t” be turned on by something… but who made those rules?
How to move from shame to pleasure
- Name it: Identifying your fetish (do you like wet panties? Thong pics? Online sex play?) is already a huge step.
- Learn about it: Realizing you’re not weird, but part of a huge community of people who feel the same, is liberating.
- Explore it: You can experience your fetish your way — safely, with consent. You can even share it by selling your worn items on platforms like Secret Panties, where desire becomes real experience, without judgment.
You deserve to enjoy without guilt
Letting go of sexual shame is a form of self-knowledge. Your desire is yours — no one should tell you how to feel pleasure. If it turns you on that someone smells your worn panties, sees you in a leopard print thong, or just chats with you in a naughty chat, that’s all part of your erotic map. And there’s nothing wrong with it.
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